How to match horoscopes for marriage
Horoscopes matching for marriage is not a service lane or shortcut or just a mathematical score card to either convince yourself or others and decide to marry. Horoscope matching either should be done properly or should not be done. Though horoscopes matching has assumed great significance in people’s minds, there are many questions also attached to it. Is it necessary to go for horoscopes matching? And if yes, how to match horoscopes, and finally, will horoscope matching guarantee a successful marriage? People in love may have such questions more as they say: when we know each other, what is the need to match horoscopes before marriage.
However, if we understand the importance of horoscopes matching for marriage & then how to match horoscopes for marriage, many such questions might get settled.
Importance of horoscope matching for marriage
Horoscope matching is to check the compatibility between the two marriage aspirants. This is no formality or a snake and ladder game, but there is a defined process behind it.
When you select any team to play a match, and you are serious to select a suitable mate for your team, you check some basic background of that person. So why should you not check the same about the person with whom you have to live for life?
If you are looking at the horoscope matching just a mathematical calculation based on Gun Matching, you are considering only Twenty percent of the horoscope matching. Understand what Gun matching is? There are 36 points called Gun, and people want to know how many Guns match out of 36. What are these 36 points called 36 Guns. Guns matching no doubt, is an essential part, but it is the beginning of the horoscope matching process. The Guns Matching is also known as Astha Koot Milan, and Koots means Rashi Gana. What are these eight Koots?
1. Varna Koot: Compatibility towards nature & workability gets one point.
2. VashyaKoot: Compatibility towards mutual relation and attraction. 2 points are allotted to this matching.
3. Tara Koot: Compatibility of mutual behaviour and trust, and 3 points are allotted to this.
4. Yoni Koot: Compatibility shows sex and physical attraction. This scores 4 points.
5. Rashi Koot: Matching shows mental compatibility to earn 5 points.
6. Gana Koot: Compatibility relates to lifestyle compatibility. This gets a score of 6 points.
7. Bhakoota: Compatibility relates to Nakshatra matching earns 7 points.
8. NadiKoot: Matching relates to the compatibility of intrinsic energy and progeny competence of the couple. This match scores the highest 8 points.
All above have their own significance for any perfect marriage, but Gana Koot, Bhakoota, and Nadi Koot are the most critical factors for any horoscope matching as these three only counts to 21 out of 36 points.
The normal myth is that the score of 18 or more out of 36 is good for marriage and a score below 18 is not good for marriage. But you cannot apply this to all the matching uniformly. A couple with less than 18 or even below 12 can live a wonderful married life, and even a score of 30 or plus may not guarantee a happy married life.
Gun matching no doubt is an essential part of matching the horoscopes. But this is only beginning of the process of horoscope matching for marriage.
What is beyond gun matching in marriage matching?
Once you have done the initial Gun matching, one should check some essential factors of the relationship compatibility between the couple before giving a final Yes or No for marriage-matching. What are the points we should check beyond Gun matching?
Check Planetary compatibility. It means checking the Ascendant Lord and Moon of both the horoscopes. 7th house Lord of both the horoscopes and then check Venus and Jupiter of both. Also, we need to examine if any malefic planets like Sun, Mars, Rahu, and Ketu or their combination in any sensitive house of marriage are there. Such combinations are not good for a good marriage.
Check Bhav Compatibility
Check the Navamsha compatibility
check the compatibility of Mars(Mangal
Check the 2nd house, the Kutumb Sthana
Check the 4th house, the house for Sukh Sthan.
Check Trishamsa, D-30 Chart
All these compatibility factors are essential for a happy married life, but you need an expert marriage astrologer to check all these factors, says Dr Vinay Bajrangi, on how to match horoscopes for marriage.
Once you have got the score of Gun matching, got the above factors of compatibility checked, you will get a life partner of your dreams. Both of you will be compatible with each other in all traits of married life, and if not, you will at least know the strengths and weaknesses of your spouse. With this, you are surely better positioned to carry the relationship and be ready to sacrifice and adjust vis-à-vis your life partner as and when required.
It is not that you cannot marry without matching the horoscopes; many do. In Western Countries also, people have started recognizing the importance of this. So select a life partner by date of birth, match the horoscope, and do not let any unforeseen reasons bother you. When you can make all efforts, spend money and time for a marriage, why cannot you spend a few minutes with a good marriage astrologer and make a marriage decision with confidence.
